In this heartfelt episode of Coached Soul, Dr. Steve Hudgins sits down with educator, student leadership advisor, and coauthor Yvette Leal to explore family relationships, blended families, heartbreak, healing, and the courage to break generational patterns.
Drawing from her own experiences as a single mother, her journey through higher education, and the challenges of building a blended family, Yvette shares how difficult seasons can become opportunities for growth, self-reflection, and deeper connection.
Together, Dr. Steve and Yvette explore how childhood experiences and family patterns can influence the way we approach relationships as adults, why empathy is essential when bringing families together, and how intentional communication can help create greater unity in diverse households.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
- How past family experiences can shape adult relationships
- The challenges and opportunities that come with blended families
- Why breaking generational patterns starts with self-awareness
- How empathy can create stronger connections between family members
- Lessons Yvette learned through heartbreak, loss, motherhood, and new beginnings
- Why healing yourself can help change the story for future generations
- How families can build trust, connection, and a stronger sense of belonging
Key Moments:
04:47 Challenges of teaching high school kids
09:35 Parents disciplining with spanks
11:38 Dealing with family and relationships
13:55 Admiring an older sister
17:18 Family history and heritage tensions
21:34 Mom’s unusual weight gain
26:37 Discussing transgenerational trauma effects
Whether you grew up in a blended family, experienced divorce as a child, or are working to break unhealthy family patterns, this episode offers compassionate insights and practical encouragement for your healing journey.
Tune in and discover how understanding your past can help you build healthier relationships and a stronger future.
About the guest :
Yvette Leal, MS
Coauthor, Educator, and Student Leadership Advisor
Yvette Leal is an educator, student leadership advisor, and coauthor of The Journey Companion Workbook. She holds a bachelor’s degree in Psychology and a master’s degree in Sociology, bringing a unique perspective on human development, family dynamics, and resilience. Drawing on her experience working with parents, children, and students, Yvette is passionate about helping people build confidence, navigate life’s challenges, and develop meaningful connections. Through her work in education and leadership, she empowers young people to discover their voice, serve others, and create positive change in their communities.